Turned Down Brothas.

[London Punter]

I`m new..so let me introduce myself before i commence.
i`ll go by London, Londo, Lony, L.P [etc.]
now that that`s done..i`ll proceed.

MEN..and ladies if you know the answer to this:
``why is it that when you`re turned down by a plus-sized female, we become: #1. a FAT bitch?``
``#2.you hit us with this TIRED ass staement: I was just trying to give your fat ass some play..you know you don`t get dick anyway!``

lmaooooooooooo..
somebody please tell me why this happens?
aren`t we allow to have preferences as well?

[Miss Gwen]

GENERALLY SPEAKING

I can understand being defensive if the lady your trying to holla at is rude when she declines but if she politely declines your invite then rudness is not necessary. Besides why would you go back and make a silly comment such as " I didn't want your number any way you fat bitch" when your ass was the one trying to holla at her in the first place. That just makes you look dumb, and ignorant and if your gonna act like that over something small then shes smart for denying your rude ass any ways......

Eric Grady said:

Let me answer that 1 for the men...well some guys really don't wanna look stupid idk y they call the women names maybe that's just them being defencive lol

[ASIL666]

...you don't hurt a mans pride girl, I don't care WHO you are or what size (being plus size just gives them a lil more ammunition, but i know what ya mean in regards to being plus size. I know some years ago I turned down men, and the next thing ya know I just became "OH YOU KNOW DAT FAT WHITE BYTCH GAY DUDE?" lololol (i'm african american btw). Although I am bi, but they didn't know it. They were feeling like how this BYTCH gonna turn me down. But being plus size and turning down men by nature you just dont do that (according to a mans nature rather), this is how it works; When you turn em down, you automatically become a bytch right off the top, and not just a bytch, a f*ckin' bytch. But the brain works so quickly, they have time to rearrange their thoughts extremely fast London, "so you and us plus size women" within a matter of mili seconds become a fuckin' fat ass bytch. But this is how it truly is in their minds, mixed with the way society has taught them and us. Its almost the same way I use to be, ok... well I still am but trying to change, BUT it's kind of like I do sometimes when I get upset. OH we also have a strong desire to mix the physical with the mental, I use to say "how the f*ck that bytch/n*gga gonna have a attitude AND be unattractive, you can't do both. We and some men (not all) have been kind of conditioned to believe that plus size women are less as a person than our slim (although like i said the slim ones not excused) counter parts, just I'm trying to stop myself from believing that if you're cute you can have attitude, but if ya less attractive WHY you got a attitude? Ya kinda get me KINDA? It's a pride thing with both, it's the quick trained response to comfort the hurt and embarresment of self.